tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post1566688082999417686..comments2023-11-10T08:02:58.163-08:00Comments on If Curves Could Talk: Saturday's with Stef: Casual Sex is not my style....If Curves Could Talk (Stefanie)http://www.blogger.com/profile/15613373581174083662noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-18928171983722592642011-12-02T14:57:22.243-08:002011-12-02T14:57:22.243-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.WitchHazelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16625202584225375303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-63832641931880025352011-11-21T13:40:08.238-08:002011-11-21T13:40:08.238-08:00wow, powerful post Stef. thanks so much for sharin...wow, powerful post Stef. thanks so much for sharing on such a sensitive subject.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14859029582683369852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-44884090901689270542011-11-20T17:18:18.759-08:002011-11-20T17:18:18.759-08:00i think you should take a lot at my blog. i write ...i think you should take a lot at my blog. i write about this a lot, especially lately. i think you'd get something from my experiences. i've known that feeling and maybe you'd understand it better hearing it from someone who's been there, done that, bought the t-shirt.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11052613249358874300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-76232494503028583022011-11-20T10:37:16.482-08:002011-11-20T10:37:16.482-08:00SPEECHLESS!!! And this is exactly why I love you a...SPEECHLESS!!! And this is exactly why I love you and always known what a special soul you have doll.<br /><br /><br /><3 Marina <br /><a href="http://fashionmakeuplifestyle.com/" rel="nofollow">Fashion.MakeUp.LifeStyle</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15632574268834771930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-20815168009577548432011-11-20T10:04:35.259-08:002011-11-20T10:04:35.259-08:00Keep trusting your gut and making the choices that...Keep trusting your gut and making the choices that are right for you.<br /><br />Best wishes<br /><a href="http://bellavidabyletty.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Bella Vida by Letty</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05638754322551651119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-18185485935748454722011-11-19T20:13:19.327-08:002011-11-19T20:13:19.327-08:00Good for you!
I also take sex very seriously, and...Good for you!<br /><br />I also take sex very seriously, and I don't think I could EVER handle casual sex. <br /><br />Maybe it is naive and old fashion of me, but I think sex should be between two people who love each otherDeidrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14993934232617420348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-27736541077787371132011-11-19T16:21:54.532-08:002011-11-19T16:21:54.532-08:00I say different strokes for different folks (no pu...I say different strokes for different folks (no pun intended) BUT if a chick is into casual sex she isnt for me. I havent had sex.... lets just say its been a while by choice, cause I dont have sex unless I can see myself having and raising a child with that person. <br /><br />Thant being said we'd have some cute kids. Just saying, not saying or suggesting!!!! LOLDJ BERNhttp://www.djbern.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-55663490273659162212011-11-19T12:30:54.202-08:002011-11-19T12:30:54.202-08:00Sex means something different to everyone. I'v...Sex means something different to everyone. I've experienced sex with my spouse, sex with those I've dated casually and sex with someone who's name I didn't know where not a word was spoken. <br /><br />Each has their place, each (to me) is valid but it's also very important to realize that our view will not always coincide with what someone else believes. Views on having kids, dating and sex are very individual and should never be forced on someone else. If a guy you're with is into sex on a first date that's fine for him but he needs to respect that you're not.<br /><br />There's a world of difference between being sexual and being easy. You've always struck me as being pretty comfortable with your sexuality Stef, which as you know is one of the things that first drew me to you. There is of course nothing wrong with that but it doesn't solely define who you are as a person. In other words, you're not just a girl who enjoys sex but someone who has real emotions, and above all self-respect.<br /><br />I often have very personal conversations with my closest female friends, some of whom are intensely sexual. I love these talks and getting to know this side of them. But I also realized early in life that regardless of how much a woman enjoys sex it doesn't mean she deserves to be treated differently than anyone else.<br /><br />Whether you're into casual sex or only sleeping with someone within a monogamous relationship, whether or not you have a boyfriend, whether you have no kids, one or seven it's no one's business but yours. The only person who can live your life for you is YOU.<br /><br />I love who you are Stef. Your confidence, insecurities, passion, your hot-blooded Latina temper, your sexual side, your compassion and your friendship. Posts like this always make me smile because you're asserting your worth as a woman and saying that no one will walk on you. That's huge to me, and always makes me happy. I hope we're forever friends.<br /><br />xoxoBarryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04641761671561288846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-30060508106764987142011-11-19T08:47:38.334-08:002011-11-19T08:47:38.334-08:00Kudos to you Stef... as I have grown older it seem...Kudos to you Stef... as I have grown older it seems as if things have changed... from guys trying to impress girls, to girls doing everything they can to GIVE boys what they want rather than making them prove themselves that they are worthy...Big Mark 243https://www.blogger.com/profile/10974573439218884164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-21403881858013334912011-11-19T07:19:26.883-08:002011-11-19T07:19:26.883-08:00Well said!Well said!Martahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10064271284993620166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-9332323540852024462011-11-19T01:40:34.718-08:002011-11-19T01:40:34.718-08:00i think that it is so brave of you to say this. i ...i think that it is so brave of you to say this. i think a lot of people, men and women, avoid these kinds of topics and the fact that you explained your situation was so brave and actually brought REAL meaning to your message rather than a theoretical message.Sophiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08243864874456269949noreply@blogger.com