tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post2890559287546963926..comments2024-03-24T09:33:22.330-07:00Comments on If Curves Could Talk: Saturday's with Stef: The Woman in the MirrorIf Curves Could Talk (Stefanie)http://www.blogger.com/profile/15613373581174083662noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-6089136238942206562012-03-05T06:23:03.897-08:002012-03-05T06:23:03.897-08:00i know exactly how you feel stef. i hear all the t...i know exactly how you feel stef. i hear all the time how beautiful i am and for awhile it stays with me but eventually i look in the mirror again and all i seem to see are my "flaws". Instead of seeing the beautiful parts of myself, these self-defeating thoughts bombard my self-consciousness and i'm back at square one. this makes me feel not so pretty a lot of the time but i do have those moments where i'm like damn girl yu are bad! lol<br /><br />the idea that i see myself from a more distorted lens projected onto me by those people i trusted to build me up is something i'm constantly struggling with. it's a process, loving yourself is girl. i have to remind myself of that all the time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11052613249358874300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-40480562475153383112012-03-03T20:56:47.435-08:002012-03-03T20:56:47.435-08:00Great job! I am not going to lie, the first line m...Great job! I am not going to lie, the first line made you sound VERY conceited, haha. But I kept reading and completely changed my opinion. I completely understand what you are saying, and to that I say, Congratulations! enjoy it, you look great! :)<br /><br /><br />xoxo,<br />Taylor<br /><br />taylormorgandesign.blogspot.comTaylor Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03370417330446425145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-9276579116730512772012-03-03T17:40:50.462-08:002012-03-03T17:40:50.462-08:00I feel you Steff... I went through the process a b...I feel you Steff... I went through the process a bit younger than you... when I went in the Army after high school... <br /><br />It took me a few YEARS to get used to it... so just relax and begin to look for the kind of traits you want your man to have and before you know it, he will appear..!<br /><br />p.s. - I love the stretch marks and dimples..! For real..!Big Mark 243https://www.blogger.com/profile/10974573439218884164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-64543104625642225432012-03-03T12:18:25.555-08:002012-03-03T12:18:25.555-08:00Hi Steph, I just wanted to let you know that you a...Hi Steph, I just wanted to let you know that you are beautiful and that I love your blog. You inspired me to make some changes and start writing again. Thanks for all you do!Searching4Ozhttp://searching4oz.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2636211373896577284.post-71370736764124559302012-03-03T04:42:18.170-08:002012-03-03T04:42:18.170-08:00You are beautiful! I totally get where this post i...You are beautiful! I totally get where this post is coming from though. <br /><br />I waver between thinking I'm beautiful and self-doubt ALL the time.<br /><br />I remember at my highest weight I still felt good about myself when I "dressed up" which is why I let it get as bad as it did. I thought I dressed well to cover up my insecurities. I would go to parties and think I looked hot only to be tagged in pictures on facebook and be mortified. The person in the mirror and the person on camera did NOT add up in my case.<br />Nowadays, I'm finding myself a little vain.... haha<br /><br />have a great weekend.safirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13087146668110437915noreply@blogger.com