WEIGHT WATCHERS WEDNESDAY: A gift from Weight Watchers

12:00 AM

If you know me and follow me on IG and my blog, you know I will get a fattening dish and make it healthy. Well, to my luck, Weight Watchers sent me an awesome gift.

It had spices, noodles, spoons, garlic press and even a bowl!

Thanks Weight Watchers!


3:09 PM

How as everyone's Easter? I spent mine really laid back until i cooked dinner! And it seems no matter how old I get, my mom always gives me a basket filled with my favorite goodies! I also made these cute little desserts!

Did you do anything? I wanna hear!

SATURDAY'S WITH STEF: I crave Stability

12:00 AM

I crave stability.

I feel like I never really had it. I guess that is why I long for it when I have my own family. 

I don't want them growing up feeling unstable, having people walk out on them, abused, or emotionally corrupted like I have.

I don' want a perfect husband, but one who wouldn't dare shatter my heart or our family. The kind of husband who I fight with and instead of leaving the house, he goes sits his ass in another room until we can TALK it out.

Yeah, there will be NO yelling in my house unless there is a fire.

Yelling scares me. Stems from my childhood.


Will I get that? Or will I always be a loser (that's how I feel) constantly moving.

A place to call home.

A place to say, "This is it...this is where I am planting my seeds to watch it grow."

I'll be honest, I feel like I am being punished.

For what? No clue.

I feel like I am stuck. I can move. Im not a tree.

So I make moves. 

I've applied to jobs. 

Some people seem to think the job market is so amazing right now.

Have they not seen who our president is?

How badly the job market is and I am in a race with millions of people here in L.A just to snag a job.

When do things get better for us.

When can we finally exhale and smile?

I crave stability.

Spiffing Jewelry: "Thug never looked so beautiful" Necklace

12:00 AM

My beautiful friend Tara sent me this amazing Necklace from Spiffing Jewelry.

If you know me, I am constantly saying, "Thug never looked so beautiful."

It's my signature line when it comes to my selfies. 

How beautiful is this necklace? How ME is it? Totally me right?!

Thank you Tara! I love it to death!

You can check out Spiffing Jewelry HERE or http://www.spiffingjewelry.com to get your very own custom-made jewelry! They have thee cutest things EVER!