Dating Again...and beng Curvy.

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Today I looked in the mirror and realized because of my funds, I haven't bought any new clothes. I mean, I looked good. But, now that I am back on the dating scene I need new threads. Sure the new clothes make someone fall in love with me, but it sure will give me a boost. My last relationship was bad. I wont go into much detail in this blog entry, but I will tell you I lost myself along the way. Let myself go and gained weight.Hence why I am back on Weight Watchers. I'm not looking for my next boyfriend, in fact I am just looking for someone to have fun with. Hang out, do the dirty deed, laugh, etc. Hey don't judge me, Sex is a part of nature and I go along with nature. Dating and being curvy is  hard...I am constantly worried that I am too fat some guy. When a guy I think is cute is into me, I actually find it hard to believe.
Do any of you have issues with your weight and dating?  


Traci Marie Wolf said...

I can totally relate. I feel the same way, I've been looking for a new dress online and I keep asking my boyfriend for his opinion and he could care less if I show up in a potato sack, but if I was wearing a potato sack when we met I would've been super self-conscious.

I've gained weight because of bad relationships and good ones (like the one I'm in) so I'm seeing that once I land my man, I give up and that's a no no.

Good luck girl. Have fun.

Stephie J said...

I totally get it.. sometimes I feel like no man will ever be interested in me because of my appearance. But I also know I think this way because of the things Josh used to say to me and how he used to make me feel. When you leave the one who has made you feel so low about yourself its really hard to get back up and realize how truly wonderful you are.. I'm finally getting there and loving myself but it's a journey no doubt. Going on dates with new guys I'm always wondering "what will he think of my body.. will he think I'm fat or like my curves" You'll never know until you go through with it and see what happens:)

Stef you are BEAUTIFUL! Never forget that!!!