I need to clear my head today loves! Yesterday I parted ways with a friend who blamed me for the person she is turning into....I was really shaken by such a statement when I have TONS of people surrounding me EVERY DAY!
This person also brought up that my past has made me bitter and not better and as I read the texts to those around me, they looked puzzled. This woman doesnt KNOW me and honestly, we are all human and mess up. I never said I was a Saint...in fact NO ONE IS...But making BIG statements as such really shake my soul.
Granted, I did say things that weren't very nice...WE ALL DO...But to sit there and blame someone for the person you are becoming is honestly, pure BS. I lived with a Meth addict & not once did I turn into one. I lived with a horrible man who cheated lied and stole...and not once did I pick up those habits. To blame others for your faults and mishaps is not taking responsibility.
I can now see why I only keep a handful of friends in my circle and I really need to start listening to my gut not when it comes to men, but friends and those who I surround myself.
So today I am having ME time!
So you manana!