SATURDAY'S WITH STEF: Trial and Errors of Dating

12:00 AM


My love life hasn't been brought up in detail since San Diego Dude or was it the New Yorker. I can't remember. 

I met a guy. Handsome. Smart. Funny. Younger than me & we just clicked. It almost felt like "How did I get so lucky."

We rushed into things & it reminded me of me and the ex. Two stars shooting through the sky act a fast rate, colliding.

Feelings are so messy.

So where we stand is, we don't stand.

It hurts thinking about it but I am more mad at myself for falling so fast. 

I'm being honest.

Someone told me, "Dating is trial and error"

They're right. 

A huge game of "rights" and "wrongs."

I wanted to just throw in the towel with dating in general.

FORGET THIS!

But I cant. I know eventually my trial and error will pay off.

I'm getting asked out left and right.

It's nice.

It's wonderful.

But I'm not dating to just get laid.

I'm dating to spend my life with someone.

Build a life.

Trial and error.

At least I'm trying right?

2 comments:

safire said...

You are amazing and you deserve to find a great guy. I think it's great that you put yourself out there and you are being picky.

Angie Dee said...

You're a good person :) Are you doing online dating? I was skeptical about online dating but I enjoyed dating and meeting new people. It's all a road with twists and turns. I finally met my current boyfriend of 2 years and we take it day by day.