SATURDAY'S WITH STEF: Having the Time of My Life

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Chloe's picture has nothing to do with this post...I just thought I'd stop with the selfies. Hahahahaha

Today, as I go on dates, although it may be foreign to me, I understand first dates are ALWAYS awkward. Getting to know someone is rather interesting. Sometimes you click, sometimes you don't. I'm not having problems going on dates. Dating is dating- Not going Steady! You go out, have fun and take it with a grain of salt. So many women pour themselves into ONE date and think it's gonna be a happily ever after. WRONG! 

I thought at one point, "Maybe I am dating wrong?" I'm not though. I have asked guys out, obviously I get asked out, Ive rejected and been rejected. It's about getting to know someone on a friendship basis rather than a romantic one off the bat. We all know that the solid foundation to ANY relationship is FRIENDSHIP! 

I have learned so much from dating. I've met some amazing friends and some not so amazing douchebags! That's okay! I may look stupid for going out with different men whether it be for drinks, dinner, a movie or whatever it, but at least I'm going after what I want and putting myself out there. I am being PROACTIVE. My prince isn't just gonna appear on my doorstep and be the man of my dreams. IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO! It requires you to get up off your butt, get fancied up, dolled up and going out. I have met men in bars, grocery stores, gym, work, on the street, just some random places. I don't regret going on dates at all. Granted I fell for one or two of them and had my heart pounded on the floor like a squashed bug, I learned about myself.

I love first dates, I love second dates, I love feeling nervous and awkward. I love texting my best friend, "I'm nervous!" and even though it's a different dude, she always responds with the same thing, "Just breathe!" 

Dating sucks.

It's stressful.

But I am having the time of my life! 

I am not dating wrong at all. I am single woman, who is beautiful, smart and funny and having the time of her life. 


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