Saturday's with Stef

12:00 AM

My whole life I have girls try to bully me. MY WHOLE LIFE. I will NEVER understand women, just like I will NEVER understand men. I share with people what I want them to know. Even if you do think you know EVERY thing about me, I can guarantee only about 5-6 people know me like the back of my hand. My mom, my 2 best friends and the rest are others that I have known for YEARS! 
I have learned that women will ALWAYS try to bring me down just so they can feel better about themselves. It REALLY disgusts me when I see or even experience this. However, I now know why I would RATHER have those 5-6 friends than 10000 acquaintances. I am a woman who chooses quality over quantity. This had me thinking of my best friend Sher. Meet Sher:

I know a lot of females who fight with thier best friends and talk shit about them and each other. I can honestly say, we have not seen eye-t-eye but We HAVE NEVER talked about one another unless it's TO EACH OTHER. She is the definition of a best friend. Always there for me no matter what the situation is. Always has my back and the ebst advice. We tell each other the truth even if its not what we wanna hear, but it's a friendship that is true.

I once knew a girl who talk lots of bad stuff about her best friend. Constantly in a fight, etc...I thought, "How sad must her life be" I can NEVER imagine having a best friend who I feel the need to fight with constantly. And I thank God for sure. We are two peas in a pod and isnt she beautiful!? Model-like too!

Just wanna say thank you to my Sher Bear for being not only my best friend, my sister but my soul mate. God has truly blessed me.


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Unknown said...

Aww...Sher and you are both so gorgeous. I'm glad you have a bestie like that. =>

And girl, I feel everything that you're saying. I will never understand why girls pick to tear each other apart, instead of build each other up. I used to have a friend that would do anything to look "kool" infront of our guy friends, she'd throw any of her girls under the bus for the guys. Her sense of loyalty was all screwed up. I practiced forgiveness, after a while, but that girl will never change. I have come to the realization that I can forgive her, but I don't want nor have to be friends with her. More than anything, I feel bad for her because I know she's like that because she's unhappy with her own self.

But it is for that reason, among others, I pick quality over quantity. I rather have a few REAL friends than a ton of FAKE friends. Besides, I'm happier this way, no drama, no stress, no having to take out the knife that someone else stabs in your back. :)

Btw, thanks for the award mama. So sweet of you. :)

Nekiah Torres said...

You are so blessed to have a bestie!! I have NEVER had a best friend. I am a very private person and I don't really let people "in" so I have never really been in deep conversations with people to get close enough to become besties. I have some really really good friends that I have kept in touch with for the past 20 years but I guess I would have to say my husband is the only one that REALLY knows me so I guess he is my bestie! You two look so cute together and the way you are hugging each other I can feel the love! Thank you so much for nominating me for the award. I LOVE your blog girl! You keeps it real and I like that about you and also you have great topics and find the most amazing products! Besitos, Kiah

Style Chic 360 said...

Congratulations on your award.

And true friends are such a true blessing!!! I feel the same way about my bestfriend!

Unknown said...

AAAWWWW...honey I'm so happy you have such an awesome bestie they're definitely hard to come by and I'm sure she feels the exact same way about you DOLL.
You're right I have a few people in my life that for some reason always hating and talking about me behind my back but not one to confront anyone so I have chosen to remove myself slowly from their lives and keep moving forward because I have too much positive and happiness going on in my life to be bother with negative people.

Anyway..Congrats on your blog award..Keep up the great job and many more awards to come doll.

<3 Marina

KayKay said...

girls can be so catty and evil and its a totally different ballpark for guys. im glad you have a friend that u can trust and call your best friend. good friends are hard to come by. you are lucky to have a bestie like her. congrats on your award

Dhalia Edwards said...

You look so pretty in this pics Step...and thank you very much. You're sooo sweet. xoxo


Sher Bear said...

I love you Boo! And your friends are right, I'm so glad to have a bestie like you too! We were just born to be BFFs! Just like we talked about tonite.. Under different circumstances we may have never gotten close. But god has a plan for all of us and I'm so thankful he's included you in my life!
The blog looks great! It's about time you're getting awards and recognition! BTW, I just saw the funniest commercial!!

♥ CG ♥ said...

Thanks for thinking of me, Stef! I cherish my girlfriends so I know how you feel about Sher being a rock amidst the chaos. I've been meaning to write about my girls...guess it's time :-).

Love ya much!