Saturdays with Stef: He bought me an Easy- Bake Oven

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Many men have walked in out of my life. Many of those men have this misconception and don't want to get know the REAL Stefanie. They don't ask questions. They don't care to know and want me in their beds. They want nudes, they want sex and they want a good time.

I have made the mistake of being a good time for a few men. I realized as much as they claimed to like me, they only liked me in one way.

He bought me an Easy-Bake Oven.

He paid attention to my Christmas List.

Never asked for nudes, hasn't talked dirty, and hasn't made me feel cheap.

I came home from work Monday and a BIG brown box laid on my neatly made bed.

I smiled big as I opened it and when I saw it was from him I held it and cried.

Sounds stupid. Sounds like something a little girl would want.


I called him with tears in my eyes and joy in my heart.


Some may look at me and think "You wanted a Polar watch, an Easy-Bake Oven, a Bayside side High sweater and Ted...really Stef?"


Here I was last week crying over not having a Christmas tree and here I am NOW, Feeling like a little girl who who is overwhelmed with joy on Christmas Day.

How can a man 3000 miles away do all the things they HAVEN'T done.

I wake up each morning excited over getting to talk to him. Excited when he likes a Facebook picture, excited when he texts me that hes thinking of me, and all day this smile stays on my face and in my heart.

Is this possible?

An Easy-Bake Oven....


3,000 miles away and he cares.

3,000 miles away and he makes me smile like a 15 year old school girl.

He paid attention.


Savannah said...

Ahh I'm so excited for you!!

864 said...

I'm glad you have found a reason to smile. Regardless of how bad things look, there is always a reason to smile.
Happy Holidays!

Jessica said...

awee i can see u smiling!!so cute

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Unknown said...

Love that smile you def look happy and its a great feelingthat someone looks at the small details that you like. Enjoy your easy bake oven.

Traci Marie Wolf said...

That's so wonderful Stef! I know it can happen. I met my husband right before I went to Alaska but we fell in love while I was far far away. It can happen.

Unknown said...

Im so happy for you looking good, Merry Christmas :)

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Unknown said...

Honey I'm so happy for you it seems like you found yourself a keeper. Cheers for you love.

<3 Marina