Saturday's with Stef: No Sex 2013

12:00 AM


I decided that I am abstaining from sex until I get serious with a good man.

This has EVERYTHING to do with bettering myself. 

Valuing myself.

Loving myself.

And I really miss MAKING LOVE with a man who thinks the world of me and sees me in his future.

Sex only causes emotions you just don't need and anxiety. NO THANK YOU.

I like who I am and I don't need some jerk to make me unhappy. I don't need an emotion that doesn't mean anything to me. I want meaning. I want a good man who wont leave my side and love me FOR WHO I AM and can care less about my weight and the fact I don't wear makeup.  

I can go without sex because it doesn't mean much to me when it comes from just a guy. I have never had a one night stand and I don't plan on being that girl who keeps having sex with a man who is no good for her , like I did with hank moody.

I love myself enough to value myself. 

I love who I am and who I am becoming. 

And I am on a Sex Strike!

Why? Because its a healthy decision FOR ME!

5 comments:

LaaLaa Monroe said...

I've said the exact same thing! It's better to wait, until that man does come around plus it doesn't cloud judgement, sex throws up all sorts of emotions. Good on you.

safire said...

You are such an AMAZING person. You deserve the whole package.

Sex is so much more meaningful when it's someone worth it.

Elizabeth Amaya said...

LOVE the way you think hun! I did the same thing...Its so much better when you wait for the right guy who will treat you better than a princess <3

Through Thick and Thin Girls said...

I'm really, really proud of you hunny. Love ya xo-Steph

traci's mixed bag said...

Good for you! I'm really proud of you Stef. Seriously. He will come, I promise you. All of these things you are doing to better yourself and see yourself for how truly valuable you are, are just things on the pathway to the love of your life. He's probably on the same type of pathway. You know like that song, God Bless the Broken Road that Led Me Straight to You.