They tell me "Love will find you...don't go looking for it" But I'm confused. In my 27 years of life experiences, I may not know MUCH, however, I do know that if I want something, I have to get up off my ass and work for it. I literally have to get up, go out, look for it and make sure I obtain it then work to keep it.
Can you see where I am confused?
Is "Love" any different?
Or is it so different that, according to some, I just have to sit back and let it come to me and AT THAT pray, wish, and hope it does?
Does getting "love" require NO effort on my part?
Does it mean that when I am into a guy physically, I should say anything to him and just pray that he notices me? Pray that I somehow magically stand out? Or do I grow some balls and approach dude? Do I get on plane and make sure I'm not missing out on my soul mate? Do I say "yes" to a date?
Can you see where my confusion comes from when it comes to love.
Being single BLOWS.
Dating is scary.
And well me, sometimes I think, what if I grow old alone and no kids!
To get up off my ass and get love or to leave it in the hands of lazy fate?
That tis the question!