Weekly Weigh-In: I didn't weigh in...

12:08 AM

I am not weighing in this week...Seems like if theres one thing, there another.

However, I wanted to get on the subject of IMPERFECTIONS. I have stretch marks and cellulite. And I will be honest, it makes me insecure! But lets face it, in life there is NO AIRBRUSHING. No touch-ups.

WE ARE HUMAN...Even celebrities. Ive only gotten FULLY naked for one man...and that was my ex. I had no shame in my game because I know stretch marks and all, he loved my body the way it is. And he also understood that his body isn't perfect either. Yes, he did have some great qualities despite the negative things. But now that I am single ( & NOT dating) it makes me wonder if I should embrace these imperfections like I do my curves...

ON A SIDE-NOTE: I cheated all week. I didn't go CRAZY but dealing with death sucks and comfort food was my best friend!

Anyways back to what I was saying...I just am insecure about my stretch marks and my cellulite. And thats okay, we all have insecurities. 

Its a part of life and our imperfections make us perfect...

So, what are you insecurities? And how do you deal with them?


12 comments:

Big Mark 243 said...

Not only am I a guy but I am a guy who works out pretty frequently ... so I don't have issues about my body!

BUT, when it comes to the kind of women I prefer and their insecurity... I try as much as I can to comfort them and let them know that since they are MY CHOICE that I don't see anything wrong with their body and that EVERYTHING about them turns me on!

Don't worry much about this week, as it is truly understandable. Take care and you are in my thoughts!

marta said...

The man who loves you will not care about that. Nobody is perfect and those who you think are, aren't, there is always something. Why worry about imperfections?

ExFatgurl said...

I hate hate my nose! I feel like it looks like a pigs nose....When I was younger they used to call ms.piggy. It's the one feature I could do without.

But honestly I couldn't even picture myself with another nose!

My boyfriend is really sweet he says that is his favorite feature lol...But like you said no one is perfect and that is okay!

Stephie J said...

I did the same thing :$.

I'm debating on whether I want to weigh in on Wednesday or not,

Inez of Style Chic 360 said...

lol, I hate that my thighs rub. I can laugh about this but I don't worry about it none of us are perfect and I love me!

Huda Kaake said...

First of all, I just have to say that I really adore your blog! I can't believe I didn't follow you sooner! <3

Anyways, this is such a great post, doll. I can relate to you incredibly well. I think as women, it's pretty much safe to say we ALL have SOME kind of insecurities about ourselves, and it could be a whole range of things. I don't really think the problem lies in WHAT "problem" you have that you're insecure about...it's how you choose to deal with it. Some women just need to remind themselves that they ARE human, and that perfect image they have for themselves inside their head is simply unrealistic and a waste of time because they'll never reach it. Instead of complaining about what we don't like, we should embrace what we DO like about ourselves :)

FROM THE "REZ" TO THE "CITY" said...

I am really insecure about my tummy. I used to be very active, a runner actually and now because of my back I can't run and my tummy has suffered the most. I have NEVER had a tummy and now I do. It is like this big loose fat roll and I hate it! lol I have decided to do something about it. I am going to start walking and doing some core exercises. Something is better than nothing! I have stretch marks too girl and cellulite. I see super thin women with both so it is not necessarily a big girl thing! A man that loves you does not care about all of that. When a man and a woman are intimate believe me....NO ONE is thinking about stretch marks!! lol Kiah

Ninja said...

You are so gorgeous! It's alright to have an off week once in a while. It's obvious that you're working really hard and had some tough times, so you deserved a break. Now slowly get back on the bandwagon. All the best to you, you're in my thoughts.

xxx Irinja (1milliondresses.blogspot.com)

frugalspender19 said...

Ugh, girl I feel you on the stretch marks and cellulite thing. Im an average size and I pretty much have stretch marks on my inner thighs, a few on my arms, and a few on my stomach. They aren't too noticeable because they're really light and pretty small, but I hate them. And I hate that I have cellulite on the back of my thighs. Not to mention, that i'm super pale. I have a lot of insecurities, but I just try to tell myself that I am beautiful despite the things I don't like about myself. If I don't love myself and my body for what it is, how can I expect someone else to do so.

Sandrah said...

Don't stress about the weigh in. I certainly don't blame you for indulging last week. God knows you had it rough. I'd just weigh in. Suck it up and move on from there. It's hard, but I had to do it. About the cellulite and stretch marks... girl, don't worry about them...we all have 'em. Some more than others, but we ALL have them.

Fashion.MakeUp.LifeStyle said...

My gorgeous Stef I do too have stretch marks and cellulite and since giving birth to my beautiful son not the best stomach in the world either. But you know the way I see my imperfections is for me "They're Scarfs of Love" they represent my son and who I am now. You my gorgeous doll you're such an amazing and caring human being and absolutely adore this sort of posts from you because just like you said: Nobody is perfect but it takes a lot for someone to absolutely put it out there for everyone to see!!! I LOVE YOU FOR THAT!!! Kisses beautiful.


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Full Figured Diva said...

Girl...I have stretch marks, cellulite and all. I use to hate my arms and legs....but over time and as I matured I've come to accept my body for what it is! We all have inperfections/flaws but we are all beautiful in our own way! This was a great post Diva!

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