Saturday's With Stef: Run! A Red flag!!!

 

Yesterday I woke up feeling different.

I woke up remembering my WORTH.

I play for keeps. I play for sincerity. Honesty. Consistency. Trustworthy and REAL!

Someone who knows what they have when they have me!

Dating sucks. 

I will be the first to admit this. But with all the changes in my life right now, I am ready for KEEPS. If that makes ANY sense.

A friend Nancy said something to me the other day after a fiasco, "BE OPEN."

I went to bed thinking, "So simple yet so complicated" 

But yesterday I woke up feeling like I need to remember my worth. To remember that I am amazing. I would be my own best friend. Yes, I said it. If I met me I would be my own friend.

I think somehow, someway, the love I have for myself got lost. That should have been a red flag that I wasn't fit for the situation. I had been CONSTANTLY questioning myself. Constantly over-thinking. Constantly feeling like I am insecure.

So not who I am! That seriously should have been the FIRST sign I wasn't in the right place. I need to be AWARE of those signs. Because it could have saved me tears!

So with that said, I hope many of you listen to those signs and see the red flags. They are RED for a reason.