Saturday's With Stef: Run! A Red flag!!!

12:00 AM


Yesterday I woke up feeling different.

I woke up remembering my WORTH.

I play for keeps. I play for sincerity. Honesty. Consistency. Trustworthy and REAL!

Someone who knows what they have when they have me!

Dating sucks. 

I will be the first to admit this. But with all the changes in my life right now, I am ready for KEEPS. If that makes ANY sense.

A friend Nancy said something to me the other day after a fiasco, "BE OPEN."

I went to bed thinking, "So simple yet so complicated" 

But yesterday I woke up feeling like I need to remember my worth. To remember that I am amazing. I would be my own best friend. Yes, I said it. If I met me I would be my own friend.

I think somehow, someway, the love I have for myself got lost. That should have been a red flag that I wasn't fit for the situation. I had been CONSTANTLY questioning myself. Constantly over-thinking. Constantly feeling like I am insecure.

So not who I am! That seriously should have been the FIRST sign I wasn't in the right place. I need to be AWARE of those signs. Because it could have saved me tears!

So with that said, I hope many of you listen to those signs and see the red flags. They are RED for a reason. 




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safire said...

Loving yourself is the most important thing you can do :)

You deserve it! Have a wonderful weekend, gorgeous!

Ola Dipo said...

truth! they are indeed red for a reason. by the way, that is a gorgeous picture of you Stef!

Savannah said...

Great post!
You're so right, dating sucks.
xxx

Anonymous said...

You have learned some hard lessons but you still maintain hope... please keep yourself open to the possibility... I think it is sadder to not attempt to love than to have been frustrated by trying...

Big Mark 243 said...

... that was my comment... I have no idea of why it came up 'anonymous'...

ThePinkMargarita ♚ said...

you look gorgeous as always! :) don't go looking for love. it will find you!

Xoxo,
The Pink Margarita

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